9780967970318
Elder Rage or, Take My Father... Please! How To Survive Caring For Aging Parents share button
Jacqueline Marcell
Format Paperback
Dimensions 5.50 (w) x 8.50 (h) x 0.80 (d)
Pages 346
Publisher Impressive Press
Publication Date April 2001
ISBN 9780967970318
Book ISBN 10 0967970318
About Book
Elder Rage is a Book-of-the-Month Club selection (a caregiving book first) receiving 100+ 5-Star B&N reviews, is required reading at numerous universities and considered for a film. 50+ endorsements include: Hugh Downs, Regis Philbin, Ed Asner, Jacqueline Bisset, John Bradshaw, Phyllis Diller, Duke University Center for Aging, Ken Dychtwald, Dr. Dean Edell, Leeza Gibbons, Dr. John Gray, Mark Victor Hansen, Julie Harris, Johns Hopkins Memory Clinic, Dr. Bernie Siegel, Dr. Nancy Snyderman, Dr. Rudy Tanzi/Harvard Medical School, and the National Adult Day Services Association.

Elder Rage is a riveting, often LOL humorous non-fiction novel chronicling Jacqueline Marcell's trials, tribulations, and eventual success at managing the care of her aging parents. Also an extensive self-help book, Elder Rage provides solutions for effective management medically, behaviorally, socially, legally, financially, and emotionally of challenging elders who are starting to get dementia and resisting care.

Elder Rage presents creative solutions for getting obstinate elders to: accept cleaning/caregiving help, give up driving, see different doctors, take medication, shower, eat, attend adult day care, move to a new residence, etc. Also includes valuable resources, Q&A, recommended reading, and extensive Addendum by renowned neurologist/dementia specialist, Rodman Shankle, MS MD: A Physician's Guide to Treating Dementia, making it valuable for everyone from the family to the physician.

Including an addendum by Dr. Rodman Shankle, founder of the UC Irvine Alzheimer's Center, A Physician's Guide To Treating Aggression In Dementia With the Proper Medications.

MY MISSIONS:

To: help improve our eldercare laws; educate healthcare professionals how to better help the families they work with; provide solutions and hope to families; encourage funding for Alzheimer's and Breast Cancer research—and bring awareness to the importance of early diagnosis; expose elder abuse, neglect and exploitation; encourage long-term care insurance/planning; bring attention to funding needs for Adult Day Services—which saved my parents' lives as well as my own. I've testified before the Assistant Secretary on Aging and am featured in an upcoming documentary on the subject.

Reviews

Library Journal

Here, Marcell shares incredibly useful information interspersed with many moments of humor. Her resource is down-to-earth and hopeful, with insight into the panoply of challenges involved with elder care: medical, social, financial, and emotional. In the "How Do I Handle My Elder Loved One Who…" section, the author dispenses wisdom on about two dozen potential situations one may encounter when caring for an elderly parent. Essential for those with aging parents.

From The Critics

In Elder Rage: How To Survive Caring For Aging Parents, Jacqueline Marcell shares the story of her shocking discovery of how the lives of her elderly parents had deteriorated with the onset of her father's dementia and inability to continue to care for her ailing mother. Elder Rage is more than a personal memoir and eventual success story, it is also a revelation into one of today's rapidly burgeoning problems of elder care and what resources are available for caregivers in dealing with problems of their parent's senility, character disorders, and age-based health issues. Of special value is the addendum "A Physician's Guide To Treating Aggression In Dementia With The Proper Medications" by former Medical Director of the UC Irvine Alzheimer's Clinic, Rodman Shankle, M.D. Elder Rage is very highly recommended reading for anyone concerned about dealing with an aging parent's needs when impacted by dementia or Alzheimers.

Regis Philbin

"I thought I knew Jacqueline until I read her book. Wow, what a story!"

Hugh Downs

"Jacqueline's story and style of writing will surely grab a large readership."

Larry Shapiro

"I wish I'd known about this book when I needed it, both for its wise advice and brave good humor."

Susan Crowley

"It's like fiction or a made-for-TV movie, filled with despair and deception, then resolution and redemption--leavened by doses of humor."

Bob DeBuhr

"Rarely does a book merit the interest of everyone age fifty-something and their children. I couldn't lay it down and neither will you. True to the adage that laughter does a body good, Marcell softens sorrow with humor that will keep you chuckling into the night. Woven into this heart-warming account are tips that alone are well-worth the price."